There is a girl my house who is emotionally cheating on her boyfriend. Some people say that because she isn’t hooking up with physically that it isn’t cheating. I disagree. In an interview with some friends I asked them the following questions...
Why do people cheat?
They aren’t happy but they get benefits from being with that person
What classifies cheating?
Emotionally spending time with someone as well as being physical.
How long would you be willing to cheat if your partner never found out?
Most people cheat until they’re sick of that person and then move onto another
What would you do if you found out you were cheated on?
Most people lose their trust after a cheat. After this lie you don’t know what else they could/ have been lying about.
Why do girls cheat with boys when they know he has a girlfriend?
Most girls cheat because they want to feel loved. If he can love his girlfriend it means that maybe he can love her to. Maybe she’s better then the girlfriend.
Why are some couples ok with cheating as long as they don’t talk about it?
This means that you can have different experiences but still come home or call someone you love at the end of the night.
To me cheating never seem to be black and white. If you cheat you cheat. There is no middle ground. I've been cheated on plenty of times and have learned to move on. In my opinion if someone cheats on you it means there not secure enough with themselves to be in a relationship. Most people think that the others persons cheating because your not pretty enough, good looking enough, fun enough, tough, spontaneous, etc. but this usually isn’t the case. If you aren’t enough of something for someone they will break up with you. Not cheat. When girls cheat is usually because they are looking to see if men are still attracted to them. If there still beautiful. When men cheat it’s because they are always on a chase. There always looking. Younger men seem to never know what they have and therefore never settle down until it’s with someone they don’t truly love. Cheating just seem to make things complicated.
When it comes to the girl in my house who is emotionally cheating, i hope she finds what she really wants before she loses the amazing man that she has.
No matter what your definition of cheating is I hope you remember how much it sucks to be cheated on and decide against it if you have the option.
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well.......I think relationships have become a joke as it is and cheating is just one of the many effects of these poor relationships. If we build stronger relationships by going on traditional dates, postponing sexual activity, limiting technology and getting to know people on a more spiritual or emotional level,then we will see a lot less people cheating. Fact
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